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Big Mama’s Secrets for how to CREATE

Want money, wealth, and physical abundance?

The secret is to come down out of your head, and collaborate with the force that’s in charge of the physical stuff… the BigMama below!

I know. There’s always been a lot of talk about the Big-Old-Guy-Creator God in the Sky.

But, honestly, he’s got his head in the clouds [insert comedy rim-shot here].

He’s full of great Ideas and Words and Commandments and inspiring feelings.

But who is the One Birthing stuff? Who is down and dirty in the mucky reality of this planet?

You know Who!!! Mother Earth… Creatrix… Big Mama – the nurturing nourishing desire-filled devotion to service. Her stuff is needed to actually Create something – in order to Birth something from the Idea realm into Tangible Reality. Like, um, a business. Or a kid. Or a project.

  • You know what they say – a “great idea” is worth about 2 cents on the open market. Everyone’s got one. It’s getting from the Idea stage to the Real Results – that is the real art form.
  • So today, I’ve got a message for you from your Right Brain – the side of you that is creative, intuitive, and oh so mysterious. I’ve got a message from the mysteries of the earth and all creation. I’ve got a message from the part of you that is that wise mama herself.
  • Because whether you’re birthing a child, a business, or a new home, it’s the BigMama you’ve got to collaborate with!

And she’s more about the Why than the How.

She’s all about connection, not competition.

Without her in the game, life is positively meaningless.

So relax, open, and let this message move you on a level deeper than your monkey-mind… It will help you get through times when you’re frustrated that nothing’s working your way. Cause if you try to push your way through it, it’s going to hurt.

The key to birthing is to relax and let your instinctual mystery take over.

Any mom who’s birthed a baby can tell you – you can’t just will yourself to “push” that little pumpkin out. You wait for the tsunami-sized wave of NOW to take over, and then you get to add your own consciousness to that “push.” In other words, it’s a combination of the power of the Creatrix with a bit of your intention and attention supporting it. Time to pay the Big Mama more attention. Otherwise, you end up creating stuff you don’t give a dang about.

And now I want to talk to you CHANNELS out there.

If you are deeply in touch with the fact that your best work comes channeling THROUGH you… you might already be OK with calling yourself a Channel.

But you might go UGH when I call you a channel. That’s because the word has been claimed by some folks who relinquish their own selves when they meet power. They give over their whole self to some “other” entity or spirit or voice or whatever. And they call that Channeling.

And then they use it to avoid taking responsibility for their words. Oh, that was Metatron or Michael or Mary or whoever I claim to be “channeling.” That wasn’t me. They deny the fact that they are the TRANSLATOR and need to be involved. Need to take responsibility. And really shouldn’t claim to be the powerless mouthpiece of some famous spirit or deity or guide or whatever, especially when that energy is beloved to some culture other than their own. It’s rude. It’s vanity. And I think it’s an irresponsible use of a sacred energy, when we think we are so ultra clear that we get to claim the perfect translation of some master’s perfect words, and then deny any responsibility for what happens next.

That’s not the BigMama way.

Because when you’re channeling in her way, you’re the receiver, you’re the translator, you’re the messenger, and you’re not done creating until you BIRTH something real.

So consider that if you are really a Channel of Genius, an instrument for good things, a co-creator with BigMama of your best work in the world, then it’s not ok to just give yourself over totally and relinquish your part. You want to stay a co-creator. You want to be involved. You want to emBODY the good stuff. Not just vision it and speak esoteric words that are a bunch of spiritually bypassing esoterica that doesn’t help anyone. You want to create something real. And that’s what I mean by Channeling Your Genius. The true genius creates real results in the real world. It’s not just channeling visionary blah blah that is super-charged with energy and impresses people, but that never really makes sense or takes root in the world.

Sometimes, I channel/translate BigMama. I’ve called this art YoniSpeak. I’ve called this art, well, speaking. Teaching. Because what comes through makes sense, and is applicable in the real world. And here’s an example of what moves through me when I open to BigMama…. Channeling my Genius… See what you think.

BigMama Speaks

Connecting the Below…

For so long you have been opening your heart, your mind, your voice. These are above your waistline! And this has led you to tremendous healing, and the power to vision the future, to call in friends and loves, to connect through heart and voice.

Now that you are clear above, Darling, it is time to clear BELOW through Me. Yes, the Earth is safe for you again, no longer the place for your killing and desecration of the feminine – soft strong Way. So open the connection downward to the Earth through me, and complete the strong channel up and down, earth to sky, yawning open through your center.

  • How can you manifest in the physical if you are not connected to the Earth through your Birthing Channel?
  • How can you birth a new project, your path, your abundance into the World without going through me?
  • How can you conceive abundance unless you draw the longing of the Earth up through me and into your creative center?

Visioning and dreaming is only halfway to completion. It is the upper world of your body. It is light and moves fast.

But if you want to make it REAL and touchable, then come down into your lower body, and the lower throat of the Creatrix you are – and speak the vision you dream of into the Earth who creates all we touch, taste, and see.

Passion and longing are the first step to making it happen. Relish your passionate longing and dare to feel it.

I am the passage and container of passion. I am where you cook your stew of creation. I am the place that the dream heats up to be birthed. You can’t skip over me anymore. I am indispensable again, finally.

Come down here, and explore the meaning and longing underneath everything. Together, from this longing, we will create reality as One.


This BigMama creative force is what I love to co-create with. She informs how I teach business, how I guide people, how I do… well… everything!

Thanks for reading this, and getting to know an aspect of the Genius that flows through and inspires me on the daily. What inspires you?

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About Mellissa

Mellissa was a Stanford-educated business lawyer until her intuitive abilities awakened in the year 2000 with the birth of her daughter.  Now she bridges the worlds of business strategy and intuitive intelligence. Creative designers, Fortune 500 executives, and thought leaders hire her to teach them how to Channel their Genius – to create on demand, to stay in their flow state, and to create lucrative businesses that follow their souls’ calling.

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