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Your Soul’s in Charge of Clearing

In last week’s blog, I dared to do something rather gutsy. I shared what I think happens right after death. Spoiler alert: it has to do with clearing all the drama and trauma from your lifetime, to literally cleanse your soul.

But guess what? You don’t need to wait until you are dead to clear out the gunk!

For the past 23 years, I’ve been paid very well to clear blocks, patterns, and habits from the energy, body, spirit, body, and from the soul. It can happen really fast. It can be very easeful. Now I’m going to tell you the secret as to why.

Your soul is at choice.

Disclaimer: What the heck do I know?  I’m about to talk about what I think happens outside of lifetimes, after death, and at the soul level.  Like everyone else, I’m just sharing my best guesses, based on my experience, metaphors, and ideas.  Now, I’m gonna tell you what I think…

I think your soul made choices before you came into this lifetime, choices to struggle and learn with certain themes. You chose your parents so that you could learn, and sometimes that happened in difficult ways. You chose the themes that you would be struggling with during this life, in order to gain wisdom on those themes. I think that’s just how powerful your soul’s choice is!

And guess what? Your soul’s choice is still that powerful, even while you are living this human lifetime. I have found that it is possible to renegotiate soul contracts, to shift habits and patterns, and to release what feels like old curses, (for good) as long as you are doing so in the highest good, in full command and stewardship of your soul’s experience. And often it requires another persons help, just because it’s hard to scratch the middle of your own back, so to speak.  It can be easier for another seer to identify, track, and shift the patterns that have been rather elusive to you.

Yah.  I know.  This soul-clearing thing is pretty dang woo.  As you know, I am part-lawyer.  I’ve always been concerned to make sure my energy work has real results.  In fact, I tracked the efficacy of my “profound clearing sessions” for four years. The math came out to 98% success rates with my clearing sessions. That’s how many clients reported that their pattern/habit/issue got way better after a single session with me. And after a while, I stopped doubting them. Sounds impressive right?  But I can’t take full credit for these results.  Some people think it’s about me, my gift or talent for doing these sessions. It might be tempting to think that someone with my gift might be some kind of miracle worker but that’s not it.

These seemingly miraculous clearings are powered by the strong intention and willingness of the person being cleared. They are effectuated by that person’s guides. And I’m just there to hold the door open to Power, with my intention for the highest good, and my channel wide open to bring through whatever spirit needs. I’m there to sort of hold their guides tools while they work. Yes, I’m there to add my intention to theirs, so that we can overpower the original intention for them to suffer with this pattern.  But really, I am a conduit for the blessings and clearing that the client is calling through.  And I’ve been doing that well for over 20 years.  So, like most things, experience matters.

I’m not the only channel who is good at helping people clear old deep stuff.

There are a lot of people practicing “Akashic records clearing“ as a modality. And it seems they are doing pretty much the same thing as I do, at some level. Some Akashic records teachers here and there have created systems and steps for people to follow, basically so they feel worthy and able to clear these things. It’s great to have systems that allow us to work with the ineffable realms.  They allow us to do what we think is “impossible” until someone hands us a certificate and a step-by-step system!

But what I really want you to know is this.  It is YOUR choice, when it’s aligned with the highest good, that is the most powerful part. Your helpers and healers are assisting to get the job done, but your power is the moving force.

So set your intentions to clear what no longer serves you, as much or as little as you’d like. Hire help to get it done. And know that your soul is the one in charge.  Tis the season.

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About Mellissa

Mellissa was a Stanford-educated business lawyer until her intuitive abilities awakened in the year 2000 with the birth of her daughter.  Now she bridges the worlds of business strategy and intuitive intelligence. Creative designers, Fortune 500 executives, and thought leaders hire her to teach them how to Channel their Genius – to create on demand, to stay in their flow state, and to create lucrative businesses that follow their souls’ calling.

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  • Lyn Nanni says:

    A woman sister! I agree 100%. In fact it served me well to remember I was choosing everything in my life when I was down at Ground Zero for the 2nd time… Thank you! XOL

  • Laura says:

    I love this! I totally agree, based on a lot of things I learned this year with 2 different healers. But the effortless, quick clearing of trauma has been my experience in the last few months with a shamanic healer who uses IFS to do parts work. I think it is wonderful that healers are finding quick, powerful, painless ways to heal! I am currently on that path as a healer, too.

    In my last session with this shamanic healer my parents came through and told us how Soul choices work in planning lifetimes. It was beautiful and healing for me. They basically said what you say in this blog. And yes, at a Soul level we choose these challenging experiences to learn to heal them, to master our healing gifts at a deeper level. I am learning to reclaim my Divine Innocence and to embody my True Love Essence after experiencing severe childhood trauma.

    Now, I can help others connect with their Divine Love Essence to access compassion with which to heal their emotional wounds. It is amazing!

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